It’s a whole thing.” Kind of wild how my future husband already knows my anxiety-ridden inner dialogue so well despite having never met before! But then came the real zinger. Now he’s thumbs’ed it, so technically he’s the last one to do something.’. Now we’re thinking about double texting, and that’s a whole different risky business. “If we’re wondering, ‘Should I text him? Should I not text him? I can’t text him too soon. “In my opinion, if you should, this isn’t even a question,” he began. Harry didn’t stop there, though he went on to declare his sage and unfiltered two cents on the matter. “If there’s any sort of games, trash, trash, trash, not for you.”